If you have ever fancied yourself as a person with something valuable to say, you have probably wished to give a TED talk. As TED lays it out crisply on their website : “TED is a nonprofit devoted to spreading ideas, usually in the form of short, powerful talks (18 minutes or less). TED began in 1984 as a conference where Technology, Entertainment and Design converged, and today covers almost all topics — from science to business to global issues — in more than 100 languages.”
Everyone who is anyone has spoken at TED : American Presidents, Silicon Valley CEOs, top tier academics and the like. This is the sort of place where someone like Dr. Shashi Tharoor might be found discussing profound matters of world interest.
He is cool, isn’t he? More on this later in an unrelated part of this article.
It’s rather clear that it’s a tremendous honor to be in the list of Top 20 TED talks. One of these Top 20 talks was given by Pamela Meyer on “How to spot a liar”.
Pamela Meyer, whose fascination with the science of lying began with sitting through a lecture at her Harvard Business School reunion in 2006, is the author of the book “Liespotting : Proven Techniques to detect deception“.
I know. We all tell lies. As Pamela points out:
“By the time we enter this work world … we enter a world that is just cluttered with spam, fake digital friends, partisan media, ingenious identity thieves, metaphoric data, world class ponzi schemers, P Chidambarams … a deception epidemic”
To be fair, I may have inserted a few word(s) in that quote along with some random, unrelated links. But then this part of the article is about lying, isn’t it?
Well, the first symptom that Pamela provides in her list of liespotting techniques is “Verbal dodging”, i.e., excessively formal language that the liar uses to create some psychological distance between her/himself and the lie.
Pamela goes on to illustrate this phenomenon with one of the most famous lies ever told (Youtube screenshot)
She explains: “Well, what were the telltale signs? Well, first we heard what’s known as a non-contracted denial. Studies show that people who are over-determined in their denial will resort to formal rather than informal language. We also heard distancing language — that woman. We know that liars will unconsciously distance themselves from their subject, using language as their tool.”
Enough about lying. Let’s come to the other topic of this post which is absolutely, blaringly, categorically, definitively and entirely unrelated to the discourse on liespotting techniques presented in any of the preceding paragraphs.
We will now have a discussion of how cool Dr. Shashi Tharoor is. You know, I think he becomes even more cool when I guess he would be angry. Like the time Arnab’s Republic TV claims to have some “expose” and for some reason #SunandaMurderTapes starts trending on top of Twitter.
Thanks to him, people of the cattle class have now been enriched with this old Latin word for cattle fodder. Didn’t I tell you how cool he is? This brings back memories. I think it was in 2013 that I learned words like “recuse” and “lacerate” how to properly use them in a sentence. And they said being a news junkie never did anyone any good.
Most importantly, we learn that no matter what, guys like Shashi Tharoor will always be cool.